tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-358605432024-03-13T22:22:53.222-04:00Party of 5Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.comBlogger1535125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-63930839473893782862010-03-15T10:32:00.007-04:002010-04-07T10:36:03.894-04:00<div style="color: #990000;"><span style="font-size: large;">Our blog is now located at: </span></div><a href="http://johnson-mccormick.com/"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b><span style="color: #990000;">johnson-mccormick.com</span></b></span></a>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-78080537093652057752010-03-14T21:24:00.006-04:002010-03-16T09:42:33.326-04:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a bitly="BITLY_PROCESSED" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S52KhMf-2xI/AAAAAAAAOIw/Y0emuAd70B0/s1600-h/beach+3+bambinos.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="265" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S52KhMf-2xI/AAAAAAAAOIw/Y0emuAd70B0/s400/beach+3+bambinos.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span style="color: #073763;">As of Sunday, March 14, 2010 this <i>Party of 5</i> blog will no longer be continued. We have a new blog located at </span><a bitly="BITLY_PROCESSED" href="http://johnson-mccormick.com/" style="color: #073763;">http://johnson-mccormick.com</a><span style="color: #073763;"> -- This blog, called </span><a bitly="BITLY_PROCESSED" href="http://johnson-mccormick.com/" style="color: #073763;"><i>Five Free Spirits</i></a><span style="color: #073763;">, is a "private" blog requiring logging in with a password. We brought over 400 of our "Party of 5" readers with us to our new blog... and we are happy to continue to give most people access to it if they'd like. If you are interested in being a reader of </span><i><a bitly="BITLY_PROCESSED" href="http://johnson-mccormick.com/" style="color: #073763;">Five Free Spirits</a></i><span style="color: #073763;">, head on over and register (click the link at the bottom below the login form). Please be sure to tell us a bit about yourself when you do!</span></b></div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-34251249992051742402010-03-05T19:33:00.001-05:002010-03-05T19:42:15.049-05:00Top 10: Reasons For Going Private<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S5E9FmFFhkI/AAAAAAAAOIg/nLZGtQCOWjo/s1600-h/o+and+k.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S5E9FmFFhkI/AAAAAAAAOIg/nLZGtQCOWjo/s400/o+and+k.JPG" width="266" /></a></div><br />
<b>Top 10: Reasons For Going Private</b><br />
<ol><li>We are so very sick and tired of the hurtful, nasty comments. In truth, we get about 100 positive comments for every negative one. But the negativity stings. Trying to stay honest, and allow ourselves to be vulnerable, while people (most of whom find ways to stay anonymous) slap us in the face... it has been very challenging. We've tried to keep our chins up. But we can't do it anymore. It came down to this: quit blogging altogether, or go private. We've decided to try going private.</li>
<li>Comments, like this one, from a couple of months ago: "I read your blog and enjoy your discussions. However your grammar makes me wince. It detracts from the great content. I believe that all writing should use appropriate grammar and syntax. You really need to take a writing course." Nice. Honestly, I am an academic, a published author (of "real" publications). I know how to write with formal prose and proper grammar. I choose not to on this blog. For a bunch of reasons. And I don't want to have to defend that. </li>
<li>But the comments that really cut deep are the ones about more substantive aspects of our lives. Comments, like this one, from a couple of weeks ago: "Why is it that adoptive White parents feel the need to mess with Black childrens' hair! Your kids are NOT Jamaican, why the forced dreadlocks??!! It looks ridiculous! You aren't raising Bob Marley's!" </li>
<li>Or, comments, like this one, from a few days ago: "If it is so hard for you to leave your baby then why do you do it? Mothers who really care about their children prioritize their children over their own selfish desire to WORK. If a woman isn't willing to dedicate herself fully to raising her children then she shouldn't have children in the first place, let alone adopt them!!! Nothing is more important than your children. If you truly cared you would not leave them with a NANNY!!!!!!!!" </li>
<li>Or, comments, like this one, from yesterday (comment made to a post I later removed which included photos of our baby Meera, not always fully clothed): "You people are sickos! Seriously! You're sick! You should be arrested and jailed for these photos of your daughter. This is classified as child porn. You are sick!!!!!!!" </li>
<li>If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. Right? Right. Well, we've tried to stick it out, and maybe we're wimps, or weak, or too sensitive... I don't know. However you look at it, we're ready to get out of the kitchen. Or, alternatively, (as I like to think of it), we're kicking the haters out of <i>our </i>kitchen. Because in <i>our kitchen</i> we have rules. The same rules that apply to every room of our home. And right at the top of the 'House Rules List' is this one: If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. At least with a private blog we can lay down the law-- if readers don't play by the rules they're not invited to our Party [of Five]. </li>
<li>There are lots of other benefits to going private too. Benefits we've been contemplating for a long time now. First and foremost is that we will feel more free to write about some of our more real issues, our more sensitive subjects, our more touchy topics. We want to write more, for example, about our trials, tribulations, and triumphs in regards to issues related to working women/dual-career-households/egalitarian relationships/gender-bending/etc. We have felt very constrained in this arena because we've been so fretful of the dreaded negative comments to anything we post on this subject. We look forward to being able to be less "careful" where these subjects are concerned.</li>
<li>We'll feel more liberated to write without worrying about who might be reading. This has been especially problematic where our own professional lives are concerned. I have always worried about students of mine, colleagues of mine, or potential professional connections of whatever sort reading this blog. In many respects, this blog has kept me grounded and real and honest. It allows that gray fuzzy area between the public and the private to be more transparent. But in other ways I look forward to not worrying so much about the 'who might be reading?' question.</li>
<li>Photos. With a private blog we'll be more comfortable continuing to post photos of our children on the internet. We are always cognizant of the fact that nothing on the web is truly "secure." But a private blog will help us feel a little less vulnerable.</li>
<li>K & O are turning six in May. Meera is turning two in May. They are getting older. How will they feel about this old blog when they're teenagers and older? Going private will feel a little less 'exposed,' and, for their sakes especially, I think that is more and more important as they get older.</li>
</ol>So, we're moving on. We're taking our party 'underground.' The good news is that it is still going to be a big ruckus party! (Based on all the emails I've been receiving since yesterday's announcement, it looks like we'll be taking a few hundred readers with us). It is really sad to end this blog as we've known it. The saddest part of all, for me, is knowing that we won't be out there -- loud and proud -- to support, in whatever tiny ways our blog has, those folks out there in the blogosphere looking for companionship on these crazy journeys so many of us are on.* I am humbled beyond comprehension by the hundreds (thousands, actually) of people who have read our blog and told me of the very real and meaningful ways that it has made them think, or has helped them to feel less alone. Just in the past day I have read hundreds of notes from people all over the world telling me that they've been reading daily for 2 or 3 years. That is just mind-boggling to me. The things you all have said to me in these emails are beyond touching. They are moving, and inspiring, and so gratifying. Thank you so much for reading and following along with our story. We're telling it mainly for us and for our kids (hopefully they will look at the blog some day?), but it is amazing to know that it has meant so much to so many more out there.<br />
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*<i>For this reason, we will be keeping this blog located here for at least a good long while. People will thus still be able to find us, and, if so inclined, can always request access to our new 'private' blog.</i><br />
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So, adios --for now-- amigos! And hello to a whole new era of our blogging! <br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S5E9ItvVUsI/AAAAAAAAOIo/a_QmkzmWZmA/s1600-h/m+grace.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S5E9ItvVUsI/AAAAAAAAOIo/a_QmkzmWZmA/s400/m+grace.JPG" width="266" /></a></div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com38tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-15824718649355869502010-03-04T07:24:00.001-05:002010-03-16T09:09:04.375-04:00Blog Going PrivateOn Sunday, March 14 this blog will be going private. If you are interested in continuing reading, please email me at hbj2 (at) lehigh (dot) edu<br />
Thanks for reading all this time y'all!Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-57032916862311755722010-02-28T20:42:00.000-05:002010-02-28T20:42:46.682-05:00February FunkDear February 2010,<br />
Good Riddance. <br />
Sincerely, The J-Ms<br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>FEBRUARY 2010</b></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>F</b></span>reakish amounts of snow and Snow Days</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nJ_4oByYI/AAAAAAAAOFE/Noa871MHwJ4/s1600-h/Freakish+amounts+of+snow.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nJ_4oByYI/AAAAAAAAOFE/Noa871MHwJ4/s400/Freakish+amounts+of+snow.JPG" width="267" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>E</b></span>veryone doing their best to hold it together (some times more successful than others -- photo below taken on a good day... making cookies!). Oh, and 'E' also stands for <i><span style="font-size: large;"><b>E</b></span></i>arthquake. We're still trembling, even though we're time and space away from the January 12 Haiti earthquake.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKDf-3Q6I/AAAAAAAAOFU/8B9GfYCI9KI/s1600-h/everyone+cookies.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKDf-3Q6I/AAAAAAAAOFU/8B9GfYCI9KI/s320/everyone+cookies.JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>B</b></span>asketball (and 2 boys' love-affairs with Lehigh b-ball games) replaced football, and baseball, at least for the time being. Basketball, basketball, basketball. Oh, and <span style="font-size: large;"><i><b>B</b></i></span>lack History Month, of course.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKJ0VjDBI/AAAAAAAAOFk/xq50o7-NoSw/s1600-h/Basketball.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKJ0VjDBI/AAAAAAAAOFk/xq50o7-NoSw/s320/Basketball.JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>R</b></span>eally and truly, this month felt like an uphill battle every single day <i>ALL MONTH LONG.</i></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKAr_Z44I/AAAAAAAAOFM/g1r1WN9ZvOg/s1600-h/really+felt+like+uphill.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKAr_Z44I/AAAAAAAAOFM/g1r1WN9ZvOg/s320/really+felt+like+uphill.JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>U</b></span>nder, unfortunately, sad circumstances we had what actually turned out to be a great (definitely the highlight of our month) impromptu trip to Massachusetts. Grandma Lorraine's was K & O's first family Memorial Service (profoundly sadly, it was Meera's third). But -- always the optimists -- as we left the church chapel Kyle proclaimed (totally genuinely) to the pastor, "That was the best funeral I've ever been to!!!!" (later she came and talked with me for awhile about our little Religious One). We really did wind up having a great trip-- including a fun 2-night stay in a nice hotel (with --jackpot!-- an indoor swimming pool) in Worcester with MorMor and MorFar, Auntie Stina, Mark, and Sadie. [Photo below = H with boys in hotel room during Meera's nap, before boys heading out with Braydon for a morning swim] Please please please do not leave nasty anonymous comments about how ashy their skin is. I know. Chlorine and February do that. Duh. We're aware of it. Please do not harass me about it because right about now I seriously cannot take the negative commentary. Trust me, I've got it covered.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKMXjYV_I/AAAAAAAAOF0/uKaeJxa_qyE/s1600-h/under+sad+circumstances....JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKMXjYV_I/AAAAAAAAOF0/uKaeJxa_qyE/s320/under+sad+circumstances....JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>A</b></span>ntibiotics. Need I say more? Sickness sucks. At one point, three of the five of us were on antibiotics. Several bottles of various prescription and over-the-counter meds were consumed by the J-M family. I don't think there has been one day during February that we've all been 100% healthy. That just totally, totally sucks. Miraculously, Owen has been the only one in the family who did not get sick (at all!) during February. Of course, he had a broken collar bone. But that's a whole other story. (and -- a positive note: we found out in February that his collar bone is 100% healed... so, <i>that's</i> good... and he's now --for better or for worse-- back to his full range of activities... including stuff like dish-washing... but also including driving all of us crazy with his crazy antics)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKJVIUiRI/AAAAAAAAOFc/t3jKf2o_J9Q/s1600-h/Antibiotics.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKJVIUiRI/AAAAAAAAOFc/t3jKf2o_J9Q/s320/Antibiotics.JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>R</b></span>eliving the Lion King over and over and over and over and over. (Oh, and there was that <span style="font-size: large;"><i><b>R</b></i></span>idiculous holiday, Valentines Day, in there somewhere too-- but, honestly, that kinda got lost in the snow day shuffle... plus, Braydon had been throwing up the night before, so that kinda put a damper on it too. ugh.) </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKLwZiQfI/AAAAAAAAOFs/sR5_CRu6GNM/s1600-h/R+-+2+Reliving+the+Lion+King.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKLwZiQfI/AAAAAAAAOFs/sR5_CRu6GNM/s320/R+-+2+Reliving+the+Lion+King.JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>Y</b></span>ear two is quickly closing in on us. As of today, our baby girl is 21 months old. Which, truthfully, just feels so depressing. How, oh how, can that be? Can't Meera Grace just stay a baby forever???</div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKOBC9KSI/AAAAAAAAOF8/LBxPxO1AI5o/s1600-h/Year+approaching.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4nKOBC9KSI/AAAAAAAAOF8/LBxPxO1AI5o/s320/Year+approaching.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>P.S. Lucky for us our trusty coffee maker went on the fritz during February. At first this seemed like yet another thing to<i> hate</i> about this month. But, no! It was a blessing in disguise! We finally had a semi-decent excuse to buy that Keurig coffee maker we've been coveting. And oh how that Keurig made our last few days of February sooooooooooo much better than they would have been without it!!!!!!!!!!!!Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-29335784679249604132010-02-28T20:22:00.000-05:002010-02-28T20:22:40.223-05:00Gospel Music at River ValleyOn Saturday I had the good fortune of brining K & O to what is, thankfully, starting to be a tradition - The Brockington Ensemble's concert at River Valley Waldorf School. <br />
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Although it's a bit strange for me, as a white man with two black sons to be at an almost all white school listening to an all black choir who are raising the roof and praising, with a lot of eyes on us and how we three handle the entire thing.... despite that hyper awareness and sense of vulnerability, we had a great time and the boys loved the music. <br />
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During the intermission, they ran up to the drummer and chatted it up and tried out the cymbals. During the final song when everyone got up to "get up" we got up and were a witness along with the rising euphoria of the ensemble. Pretty awesome.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a bitly="BITLY_PROCESSED" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_E1oVwmlZSME/S4sWubjRFyI/AAAAAAAAAps/jF45mNLA9r0/s1600-h/photo.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_E1oVwmlZSME/S4sWubjRFyI/AAAAAAAAAps/jF45mNLA9r0/s320/photo.jpg" /></a></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01251586884036392338noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-64996028218170255832010-02-26T21:45:00.000-05:002010-02-26T21:45:25.575-05:00Sleeping Together For At Least One Year<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4iFjhuHdEI/AAAAAAAAOE8/F_qzSFZm3Uw/s1600-h/sleeping.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4iFjhuHdEI/AAAAAAAAOE8/F_qzSFZm3Uw/s400/sleeping.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>February 26, 2009 I posted this post:<a href="http://johnson-mccormickfamily.blogspot.com/2009/02/photo-of-day-7-in-bed.html"> click here</a>. Apparently at that point K & O had been sleeping together for 2-3 weeks. (I would never, ever have remembered that if it weren't for this blog.) They've been sleeping together every night since then. So, it has been at least a year, solid, of sleeping together. They still sleep with Owen's Lovey Lion and Lovey Lion's twin brother and with Kyle's Honey Bunny and Honey Bunny's twin brother. "Turtle" or "Tortoise" (as they sometimes call him) --a light-up turtle that I gave to Owen-- also has been sleeping with them for the past few months. They still always have "sleep music" blaring all night long. And numerous night-lights. They almost always choose to sleep in Owen's room. And they almost always do well at bedtime. This (doing well at bedtime) is a huge improvement over the years prior, when bedtime was a <i>serious challenge</i>. Now, more often than not, bedtime is pleasant for all involved. I think it is so sweet that our boys want to sleep together at night. When we check on them before we go to bed they are almost always entwined under the covers. I love that they have this.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-27822637297028578412010-02-26T20:48:00.000-05:002010-02-26T20:48:09.173-05:00Notes From the Trenches of (Yet Another) Snow Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4hyKXH-yHI/AAAAAAAAOEk/e3S1agLDvoQ/s1600-h/a+drawing.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="276" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4hyKXH-yHI/AAAAAAAAOEk/e3S1agLDvoQ/s400/a+drawing.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>We're dreaming of vacation. That is always the dead give-away that we're in the depths of the doldrums of the winter-time-blues. Pre-kids, Braydon and I would always start dreaming of vacation right about late February/early March. It happened every year. We'd start planning a May trip then, and the hopes-dreams-plans for that spring vacation would keep us going through the end of the school year. {We never entered the "real world" and have always, still to this day, operated on an academic-year-type-calendar.} Well, now that we have kids, nothing has changed in the right-around-late-Feb-early-March hoping-dreaming-planning for vacation department. Except that now our kids participate in it with us. Sometimes it feels like that May vacation, and that alone, is what keeps us going.<i> How pathetic is that?</i> (I posted about the less-pathetic aspects of this phenomenon<a href="http://johnson-mccormickfamily.blogspot.com/2009/10/on-needing-breaks.html"> here</a>.) <i>Pretty pathetic.</i> I'm not sure exactly what to make of it that K & O are just like their parents when it comes to travel. I suppose it shouldn't be such a surprise, but still-- it was surprising today that during Meera's nap, while K, O, and I were sitting at the table drawing (with a near-BLIZZARD outside our windows and nearly 2 FEET of new snow piled up), I found my boys drawing pictures of "our next big trip." Kyle drew what is, <i>for him</i>, a very detailed and painstaking drawing of a "Hotel Map" (note the yellow 'beach' and the blue 'ocean'). Owen drew an airplane and next to it wrote out a long sequence of numbers, which were "our airline ticket numbers" and "our hotel room number." They asked me to draw "a boat going to an island with starfish and coral under the water." Nice. So, that pretty much sums it up. At least in some existential kind of way that sort of says it all, I think. Just a couple other notes from this, the MILLIONTH SNOW DAY OF THE WINTER OF 2010:<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4hyMSEs_0I/AAAAAAAAOEs/ehn2lsQTwz4/s1600-h/a+snack.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4hyMSEs_0I/AAAAAAAAOEs/ehn2lsQTwz4/s400/a+snack.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Seriously, the biggest, most grueling task of being home with the boys all day long (i.e., with them having no school, no outings, no nothing allllll daaaaaaaaaaaaaaay loooooooooooooong) is the FOOD PRODUCTION. I cannot even explain how intense it is. Seriously. They eat sooooo muuuuuuuuch.And they are onlyyyyyyyyyyy fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiive years old. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: What on earth will it be like when they are fifteen?????????? They eat <i>so much.</i> They are hungry almost all day long. They are bottomless pits. Lately Kyle, especially, is just ALWAYS hungry. He finishes a huge meal and within an hour he's asking for more food. He must be going through a growth spurt. But seriously, you have to see it to believe it. Photo above taken at 9:30 this morning. After many and multiple breakfast food items between the hours of 7:00-9:00 a.m., they were ready for "a real snack" (i.e., what most of us would consider a MEAL) at 9:30 a.m. While I drank coffee Owen had leftover pizza and Kyle had leftover ravioli with pesto and parmesan. That satisfied them for about a 1/2 hour. Over the course of the day Kyle ate 3 bananas, the two of them combined ate 5 clementines, Owen ate so many oatmeal-cranberry-white-chocolate cookies that I lost track, and they (along with their sister) consumed 1/2 gallon of whole milk. That is just in addition to their real meals and many other various snacks. For dinner they ate -- amongst other things -- an entire "Family Size" package of chicken nuggets. Keeping up with their food consumption is truly exhausting. It, alone, keeps me 100% busy all day long on a day like today. By the end of the day I want nothing-- absolutely nothing-- to do with food prep, ever again.<br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4hyOG7kKHI/AAAAAAAAOE0/1SMKvZcMisk/s1600-h/an+old+toy.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4hyOG7kKHI/AAAAAAAAOE0/1SMKvZcMisk/s400/an+old+toy.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>In a moment of brilliance we dragged an old toy from the boys' toddler-hood out of the basement. It kept them all occupied for quite some time. And it brought back a lot of memories of when K & O were M's age. It was a lot of fun, and probably (pathetic as this is...) the highlight of our day. It was not one of our greatest days. Nobody under the age of six had any major meltdowns (miraculously), Meera continued to pee (and poop today!!!!!) in the potty, and no parent lost their temper (huge accomplishment)... but Mommy cried (hard) twice, and the parental unit was not so unified (including one major blow-out). We are so sick and tired of snow, and the novelty of Snow Days has <i>definitely </i>worn off. But, thank God, today is all done, and tomorrow is a new day.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-3377692269805652962010-02-25T20:30:00.000-05:002010-02-25T20:30:16.612-05:00PeePee on the Potty!!! And Other Firsts!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4cg_SI9ZwI/AAAAAAAAOEE/ue4f9tJ25N8/s1600-h/potty.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4cg_SI9ZwI/AAAAAAAAOEE/ue4f9tJ25N8/s400/potty.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Yesterday, late afternoon, while the boys were at Kung Fu (and Braydon chaperoning them there), Meera did her first pee pee on the potty!!!!!!!!!!!!! Huge, huge, very big deal!!! It was deliberate and purposeful; it was the real deal. Then again, this morning, she did a repeat performance for the whole family! We all did the happy dance and she got a little chunk of good Swedish chocolate as a reward. What a proud little 20-month-old she is! In the past couple of weeks Meera's had a few big 'Firsts'... </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4chAPP-LTI/AAAAAAAAOEM/Ks7FFOdUOhw/s1600-h/M+climbing.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4chAPP-LTI/AAAAAAAAOEM/Ks7FFOdUOhw/s400/M+climbing.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">First time at the climbing wall!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4chCO_TUOI/AAAAAAAAOEU/v5CYY-EYWVI/s1600-h/first+french+braid.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4chCO_TUOI/AAAAAAAAOEU/v5CYY-EYWVI/s400/first+french+braid.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">First french braid!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4chC-EAbTI/AAAAAAAAOEc/0W_umhWsZ7s/s1600-h/Meera%27s+first+day+of+school.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4chC-EAbTI/AAAAAAAAOEc/0W_umhWsZ7s/s400/Meera%27s+first+day+of+school.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">First day of "school"!!! Meera and I are doing <i><a href="http://www.rivervalleyschool.org/earlychildhood_gardengate.php">Garden Gate</a></i> together at our Waldorf School on Monday mornings this semester. We've had two sessions so far, and we are both loving it. Braydon took the photo above just as Meera and I were pulling out of the garage to head off to our first day.</div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-66044569767160031932010-02-25T20:15:00.001-05:002010-02-25T20:16:08.431-05:00Another Snow Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4cf8w-M4sI/AAAAAAAAOD8/q7NXwYQT6kQ/s1600-h/snow+day+snow+2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4cf8w-M4sI/AAAAAAAAOD8/q7NXwYQT6kQ/s320/snow+day+snow+2.JPG" width="214" /></a></div><div style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;">Daffodils are yellow </span></div><div style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;">Some crocuses are blue</span></div><div style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;">We've had way too many snow days this winter</span></div><div style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;">Oh Spring!-- how we can't wait to see you </span></div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-6320085941624585612010-02-24T21:00:00.000-05:002010-02-24T21:00:46.653-05:003 Drummers Drumming<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XZon5jtLI/AAAAAAAAODk/QksI37BIEVc/s1600-h/3+drumming.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="267" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XZon5jtLI/AAAAAAAAODk/QksI37BIEVc/s400/3+drumming.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XZqOesHfI/AAAAAAAAODs/lpJecYbakm0/s1600-h/3+drumming+2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="267" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XZqOesHfI/AAAAAAAAODs/lpJecYbakm0/s400/3+drumming+2.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XZru3pH-I/AAAAAAAAOD0/BpCEwUVyCmM/s1600-h/3+drumming+3.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="267" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XZru3pH-I/AAAAAAAAOD0/BpCEwUVyCmM/s400/3+drumming+3.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-50661244151630021342010-02-24T20:56:00.000-05:002010-02-24T20:56:28.654-05:00An Owen Quote<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XUOsgaJ3I/AAAAAAAAODc/dmHwDd9alk0/s1600-h/owen.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4XUOsgaJ3I/AAAAAAAAODc/dmHwDd9alk0/s400/owen.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><br />
Owen is in <i>constant motion</i>. He is <i>capable</i> of sitting still for long periods of time if need be. But more often than not you'll find him moving. Moving moving<i> moving</i>. We've had a couple of different evaluations done over time, and his teachers (including his daycare and preschool teachers when he was younger) have always been in unanimous agreement too -- he does not seem to have ADD/ADHD. It seems --everyone so far conclusively agrees-- that Owen is just an<i> incredibly active</i> kid. Kyle is too. But Owen is even slightly more. <i>Off-the-charts</i>-active. Like, totally, totally energetic beyond anything most people have ever seen. The kid has more energy than any of us know what to do with. It is an endless bottomless boundless pit of ACTIVE. And he's just so enthralled and engrossed and engaged in every detail of every day of life. It is an amazing (and intense) way to live! (and makes for a seriously fun --- but<i> seriously</i> challenging --- kid to parent). Anyway, this past Sunday evening Owen and I were talking while he was in the bath. The boys had just come home from a birthday party and were clearly exhausted. I said, "Birthday parties are exhausting, aren't they?" Owen said, (as he crazily splashed, poured, whirled and twirled in the bathtub) "They aren't exhausting for me!" I said, "Owen, everyone gets exhausted from birthday parties-- even you." He said, "Why? Why do people get exhausted from birthday parties?" I said something like, "Well, because kids all go<i> crazy </i>at birthday parties -- with all their friends together in one place, and all the special fun stuff to do, and the excitement of the birthday, the cake, the presents, and everything -- it is just exhausting for everyone!" He said, "I feel like I'm at a birthday party everyday!"Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-61299089265590089042010-02-23T21:05:00.000-05:002010-02-23T21:05:16.549-05:00A Meera 'Quote'<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4SGT3XTy7I/AAAAAAAAODU/Iq09UOavowo/s1600-h/m+thank+you.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4SGT3XTy7I/AAAAAAAAODU/Iq09UOavowo/s400/m+thank+you.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><br />
We've done just a little bit of sign language with all three of our kids during their baby/toddler-hood. We've done the same four words with Meera as we did with Kyle and Owen: 'please,' 'thank you,' 'more,' and 'all done.' Only four words, but K & O, and now M's ability to use these four signed words has allowed them very effective communication as little ones. It is amazing how much you can communicate with just four little words. Meera is starting to be more and more verbal lately, and she's saying quite a few words these days. But she still exclusively signs "thank you." Our sign for thank you is an upturned hand slid out toward the person to whom the 'thank you' is being communicated (photo above). The thing that is so very cute is that she 'says' [signs] "thank you" <i>completely unprompted</i> for every single thing imaginable for which you might say 'thank you.' You give her a little cup of water, she signs 'thank you'; you give her a snack, she signs 'thank you'; you put her shoes on, she signs 'thank you'; you put her in the bathtub, she signs 'thank you'; you change her diaper, she signs 'thank you'; and it goes on and on and on all day. She will stay totally still, with her outstretched hand, signing 'thank you' until you notice it and respond, "you're welcome." She does this with <i>every</i>one she spends time with and<i> every</i>thing that they do for her<i> every</i>day. It is really sweet and I know it will eventually end as she starts replacing the sign more and more by verbally saying the words "thank you." I want to never forget how cute it was when we were in this time with our baby Meera.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-89672573983047831352010-02-22T20:56:00.000-05:002010-02-22T20:56:34.583-05:00A Kyle Quote<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4Myvwyz3_I/AAAAAAAAODM/LRH6Sb_7ykQ/s1600-h/chipotle.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4Myvwyz3_I/AAAAAAAAODM/LRH6Sb_7ykQ/s400/chipotle.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Kyle is a serious sweetie pie charmer. He always has been. From the time he was a toddler women have been telling me, "He's going to make a<i> great husband</i> for some <i>lucky</i> woman some day!" And it is true-- he is seriously sweet, especially with the ladies. The top of his 'Ladies List' is --- lucky for me! --- his Mama. There are others right up there at the top (MorMor, his teacher Miss Amanda, his good friend from school Alyssa, etc.), but I am, without a doubt, his Numero Uno (and I plan to do my darnedest to keep it that way for a long, long time). Not a day goes by that this boy doesn't do or say something outrageously sweet and lovey to me. He kisses me, spontaneously, at random times throughout the day. He loves to cuddle anytime he has the chance. Rarely does a dinner come and go without him getting up from his seat when he's done eating, walking over to me at the table, hugging me, and then saying, "Thank you for dinner!" And he regularly says things that just absolutely melt my heart (and he always seems to be genuinely sincere in saying them). It is a<i> gift</i> he has, I tell ya! At one point this past weekend we were eating dinner out at Chipotle. We were talking about food, and different types of food -- Chipotle is "Mexican food," and we also love "Thai food" and "Haitian food" and "Indian food" and "Swedish food" and "Italian food" etc. I said, "I love Mexican food -- I think Mexican food is my favorite." And then I said, "Kyle, what is your favorite kind of food?" And he said, barely skipping a beat, "Mommy food."Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-53561852595443376662010-02-21T19:15:00.000-05:002010-02-21T19:15:53.080-05:00The Three<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4HLxkj4n-I/AAAAAAAAODE/h3qjHvYlB68/s1600-h/the+three.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4HLxkj4n-I/AAAAAAAAODE/h3qjHvYlB68/s400/the+three.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Every once in a while they'll call for me --from wherever they are in the house, to wherever I am in the house-- they'll shout out to me to "come quick! and bring the camera!" Sometimes it is a crazy scene they want to capture (usually involving something "naughty" that Meera has done... i.e., took off her diaper, spilled water all over the couch, tried to 'clean the kitty litter,' etc.), and sometimes it is something amazingly cute -- something I never could have captured with the camera if I had tried to pose them. This moment, captured above, was one of the latter.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-22619857646313842642010-02-21T14:08:00.001-05:002010-02-21T14:09:55.768-05:00Celebration of African Cultures 2010<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4GC_5ghouI/AAAAAAAAOBk/qU_h56XrSac/s1600-h/1.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="251" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S4GC_5ghouI/AAAAAAAAOBk/qU_h56XrSac/s400/1.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Kyle flaunts his moves in the center of the Hip-Hop circle!</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div>Yesterday we went into Philadelphia for the <a href="http://penn.museum/press-releases/708-21st-annual-celebration-of-african-cultures-saturday-february-20.html">Celebration of African Cultures</a> at the Penn Museum. <a href="http://johnson-mccormickfamily.blogspot.com/2009/02/celebration-of-african-cultures-2009.html">This was our third year going.</a> It has become such a great annual tradition for our family. Kyle and Owen are starting to understand some basics of their ancestry. They understand that they are Haitian-American, first and foremost, and they are starting to understand the bigger picture of what it means to be <i>African-American</i> and part of the Haitian<i> and African</i> diaspora. This was the first year since we started going to the Celebration of African Cultures that the boys began asking what the word "culture" really means. We had some big discussions about that. Recently I can feel us moving into new realms with their curiosity, inquisitiveness, and questioning regarding more complex questions of race, ethnicity, heritage, lineage, and the larger social world. I anticipate lots and lots of big conversations in the years to come. Going to the Celebration of African Cultures each year -- even at these young ages -- is one of the (so many) ways we are conscientiously trying our darnedest to lay down a strong foundation for our boys. We feel a heavy burden, as white parents raising black sons. We are grateful for every opportunity that we can grasp on this journey. Yesterday was a<i> great</i> day for us. Highlights~~ Kyle and Owen participated in two workshops-- first an African Dance Workshop and then a Hip-Hop Dance Workshop (both were awesome!); the boys made fast friends with some cool kids (always so amazing how quickly kids can become tight!); and the "Stilt Man" (K & O's name for him) -- a big hit with the boys -- returned again this year in the Grand Finale Show. Meera was not thrilled about the whole event, but she tolerated it well with very little fussing (albeit not much enthusiasm either), and the boys' enthusiasm<i> more than made up</i> for her lack-thereof. <br />
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</div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-21798994302231056262010-02-19T21:23:00.000-05:002010-02-19T21:23:06.702-05:00Meera's NecklacesLately Meera has taken <a href="http://johnson-mccormickfamily.blogspot.com/2009/08/little-miss-diva.html">her love affair with necklaces</a> to a whole new level. She is fully in the throws of another phase of lovin'-the-necklaces (and needing to wear them<i> often</i>). Not that Meera's necklace phase ever really ended, but it does seem to kind of ebb and flow -- and right now, the necklaces are <i>really flowing</i>. But in the past few days she's started something new-- she's taken to also putting necklaces on Baby and Kitty. She gets them all necklaced-up and then takes them for a stroll. Meera Grace has really come into her own in the past couple of months; her personality is shining through loud and clear these days; and we're beginning to think that our girl is<i> almost as crazy</i> as her brothers... how did <i>that</i> happen????????????<br />
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[Note: even though I've been asked a bunch of times by various people/places to blog about products here, with only one exception {something I'm going to blog about sometime soon}, I have always said no and have never done product endorsements on this blog. I did not receive anything in return for writing this post, and the fabric-designer/blogger was not even aware that I was going to post this]Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-39907820473693004192010-02-18T20:12:00.000-05:002010-02-18T20:12:33.570-05:00Snow and StuffWell, we are officially in the deep down depths of winter. Since moving to Pennsylvania in 2003 we have never seen so much snow here. This winter we've had a series of snowstorms that have left a bunch of snow on the ground without having a chance to melt before the next storm comes. It isn't anything like the winters I had growing up in New Hampshire, but it is the closest that I've seen since moving to this part of the country. The J-Ms seem to have a love-hate relationship with snow. We do love it. And we do hate it. What it really boils down to is that basically we love a lot of snow <i>when we're visiting New Hampshire</i>. Otherwise, <i>at home</i>, we could be <i>very happy</i> without it. And yet, here we are. We're trying to make the best of it, but really-- we just want spring to come, and it is only mid-February. Ugh. And we have a lot on our minds, too. Haiti is still right up at the surface for us. It is a constant, daily conversation. As it should be. But still, it isn't easy. I cannot even imagine how hard it is for families who experienced being there for the earthquake... let alone the reality of life for everyone still on the ground in Haiti right now. It is all<i> constantly</i> on our minds. And we're dealing with our own earthquake-aftermath stuff which runs pretty deep (and which I'm not going to write about in any detail here). So, again, here we are. It is what it is. And there is no way over it, under it, or around it -- we just gotta go through it. But I'm not gonna lie about it -- it is tough right now. On top of it all is work. Both Braydon and I are absolutely swamped. And it is just hard when we're<i> both</i> swamped because it means we're just totally overextended and spread far too thin on every front. And so it goes. The hardest part of each day, however, (at least for me), is leaving Meera to go to work in the morning. We've got the best nanny in the whole world. Margie is a God send and I thank my lucky stars (and I thank her profusely) each and every day. But still, it is tough. The boys go skipping off onto the bus to school each morning, so it isn't totally gut-wrenching to leave them (at least not most days)... but Meera is another story. She's happy as can be, and I am grateful for that, but it still kills me to leave her each day. She'll kiss me and cheerily say, "Bye bye!" when she sees me pick up the bag I carry to work. And now, just in the past couple of days, she has started to say "I love you!" (sounds like<i> "la lu!"</i>) as I walk out the door. Seriously, it melts --and breaks-- my heart each and every morning. I cannot imagine not working. But I also would be dishonest if I didn't admit to the fact that it<i> pains</i> me to walk out the door each day. So, it is a lot of mixed emotions. Emotions that working moms don't really get enough of a chance to talk about or process or sort through. These are the same sorts of mixed jumbled up emotions I feel as I watch Margie with the kids sometimes. Every once in a while I work from home (I try to avoid it because it is really hard on everyone to have me present, but not really present)... and I can truthfully say that having my kids so well cared for by Margie is one of the most amazing feelings I've ever felt. I cannot even explain the depths of peace and comfort that it brings to me. On the other hand, as I watch them for brief moments here and there, it just breaks my heart to see them doing things together that I wish I could be doing with them. Like playing in the snow. Truth is, I have absolutely no desire whatsoever to go sledding with them... and yet... there is nothing in the world I'd rather do than go sledding with my kids. It is impossible to explain. But it is what it is. And so, again, here we are. Hopefully spring will come, and with it the blossoming of new energy and new new emotions. But right now... we're just kind of dealing with snow and stuff. (photos below - Margie and the bambinos sledding)<br />
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The class is from 5:00-5:30, but (between getting out the door, the drive to/from, getting coats/boots/hats/mittens on/off, getting settled in and getting back out, etc. etc.) they are actually gone from about 4:30-6:00. This is an hour and a half each week that I get to spend alone with Meera. This time of day has always been her hardest (as I think it is for almost all babies/toddlers/kids/grown-ups), but still... it is such a nice treat to get to spend a good chunk of time with her each Thursday afternoon/evening. Kyle and Owen used to<i> love</i> playing in the sink when they were Meera's age. This water play has become a great activity for Meera and I while the boys are all out at Kung Fu.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-69686982851184620432010-02-16T21:36:00.000-05:002010-02-16T21:36:52.611-05:00Potty Training Meera<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3tWEgcsEgI/AAAAAAAAN_0/T3mVoQW5pPg/s1600-h/potty.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3tWEgcsEgI/AAAAAAAAN_0/T3mVoQW5pPg/s400/potty.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3tWGe7SI6I/AAAAAAAAN_8/9qeSKdifP6g/s1600-h/DSC_0939.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3tWGe7SI6I/AAAAAAAAN_8/9qeSKdifP6g/s400/DSC_0939.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-87954021435268082942010-02-15T19:53:00.000-05:002010-02-15T19:53:35.940-05:00LionKingManiaThe boys have been<i> obsessed</i> with the Lion King ever since we went to see it for our Adoption Day (<a href="http://johnson-mccormickfamily.blogspot.com/2010/02/adoption-day-2010.html">click</a>). We bought the Broadway show soundtrack (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Lion-King-1997-Original-Broadway/dp/B000001M1B">click</a>) for them, and they listen to it<i> obsessively</i> every single day. Oftentimes they not only listen to it, but act out their favorite parts to the music. They have a few of the songs memorized. And they<i> are</i> Simba for large portions of each day. Owen got it in his head that he really, really wanted me to "paint" him to look like the "Young Simba" from the play. He <i>obsessed</i> over this until finally I found, and bought, body paint so that I could do it. We've done the body-paint-Young-Simba thing a couple times now. The boys<i> love</i> it. Meera wants a little something painted on her, too, of course. And then they all dance around <i>dramatically</i> to the Lion King music-- Kyle and Owen acting out key parts of the story, and Meera just trying her best to keep up with them. It is all very <i>action packed</i>. You can just imagine. Anyway... the funniest part is that we go through this whole dramatic LionKingMania, and then, just as if nothing ever happened, next thing you know, we're all eating dinner... body paint and all. On the particular night of the photos below it was all very<i> dramatic</i> and <i>action-packed</i>, and then... sure enough... we found ourselves eating chili. Never, ever a dull moment around these parts.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npmj0tmiI/AAAAAAAAN_M/N9BbBUq4X6s/s1600-h/1.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npmj0tmiI/AAAAAAAAN_M/N9BbBUq4X6s/s320/1.JPG" /></a><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npoXDFkAI/AAAAAAAAN_U/VEUJRJADmng/s1600-h/2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npoXDFkAI/AAAAAAAAN_U/VEUJRJADmng/s320/2.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npqXWOCpI/AAAAAAAAN_c/vG9YgBDBlq4/s1600-h/3.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npqXWOCpI/AAAAAAAAN_c/vG9YgBDBlq4/s320/3.JPG" /></a><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npsfVZO0I/AAAAAAAAN_k/BCZeKhLELFQ/s1600-h/4.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npsfVZO0I/AAAAAAAAN_k/BCZeKhLELFQ/s320/4.JPG" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npuOfBeJI/AAAAAAAAN_s/UZoPEmtT8GA/s1600-h/5.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3npuOfBeJI/AAAAAAAAN_s/UZoPEmtT8GA/s320/5.JPG" /></a></div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-10724787803762290392010-02-14T13:10:00.000-05:002010-02-14T13:10:43.614-05:00Happy Valentines Day!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8J2zdSFI/AAAAAAAAN-c/JjHimh3gGd0/s1600-h/1.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8J2zdSFI/AAAAAAAAN-c/JjHimh3gGd0/s400/1.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8LksR7pI/AAAAAAAAN-k/G77R4w6rLcA/s1600-h/2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8LksR7pI/AAAAAAAAN-k/G77R4w6rLcA/s400/2.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8NKyYr3I/AAAAAAAAN-s/znhF7WceH7Y/s1600-h/3.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8NKyYr3I/AAAAAAAAN-s/znhF7WceH7Y/s400/3.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8PO29YEI/AAAAAAAAN-0/f7SXhb-bV50/s1600-h/4.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8PO29YEI/AAAAAAAAN-0/f7SXhb-bV50/s400/4.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8QsSne3I/AAAAAAAAN-8/_nVBFqd7EQY/s1600-h/5.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8QsSne3I/AAAAAAAAN-8/_nVBFqd7EQY/s400/5.JPG" width="400" /></a><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8SB-dQdI/AAAAAAAAN_E/hJE_thV7u0c/s1600-h/6.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3g8SB-dQdI/AAAAAAAAN_E/hJE_thV7u0c/s400/6.JPG" width="400" /></a></div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-52410819009639478562010-02-10T22:37:00.001-05:002010-02-10T22:59:40.965-05:001 Snow Day in 12 Snapshots<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0pWaXuyI/AAAAAAAAN88/-VreIpo_X9U/s1600-h/1.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0pWaXuyI/AAAAAAAAN88/-VreIpo_X9U/s400/1.JPG" width="267" /></a> </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">We woke up to this. We were expecting it, but still... it was 'Wow!' We don't get this kind of snow around here very often (actually, never, since we've lived here). No school. No Margie. A "Mommy Day!!!" (Papi working from home). As overwhelming as this is to a working mother, one thing I've learned is to try to just take a few deep breaths, try to let go of all the missed deadlines and need-to-reschedule-meetings and over-flowing-email-inbox and just embrace it. With a lot of hard work over the past five years, I have become pretty dang good at embracing it. Today, it turns out, was just what we all needed. It is the depths of winter, I've been burning the candle at both ends, Braydon has been fully immersed in his work, and three out of the five of us (H, M, K) are currently on antibiotics for nasty sick stuff. Today we had a deep down good day. Probably a Top 20 Day of the past year. Thanks to the piled high and piling higher snow forcing us (well, let's face it, <i>me</i>) to just <i>be home</i>.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">*</div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0qle2pfI/AAAAAAAAN9E/mw4ADjlAulg/s1600-h/2.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0qle2pfI/AAAAAAAAN9E/mw4ADjlAulg/s400/2.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Breakfast (yogurt, granola, berries) and dominoes.</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0sODPzpI/AAAAAAAAN9M/MxMOHLThDDI/s1600-h/3.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0sODPzpI/AAAAAAAAN9M/MxMOHLThDDI/s400/3.JPG" width="266" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Meera took a 3-hour-long morning nap (yes, she still does the marathon napping thing <i>often</i>). The boys and I spent that entire time cooking together in the kitchen. They have become such great helpers in the kitchen. For real. They peeled carrots, boiled and peeled hard-boiled eggs, fried up bacon, grated cheese. And then they chopped up huge mound of carrots, celery, onion, and potatoes... for...</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0thIkXmI/AAAAAAAAN9U/Vg1wWW7_zZA/s1600-h/4.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0thIkXmI/AAAAAAAAN9U/Vg1wWW7_zZA/s400/4.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">A big batch of lamb stew... which they seriously made almost entirely on their own (with only minimal coaching by me). It sat on the stove simmering for the rest of the day just waiting for dinner-time.</div><div style="text-align: center;"> *</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0vLE-tHI/AAAAAAAAN9c/hOQ84yVeA1Y/s1600-h/5.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="267" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0vLE-tHI/AAAAAAAAN9c/hOQ84yVeA1Y/s400/5.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Lunch was spinach salad and cantaloupe on the floor by the fireplace.</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0wjJOdFI/AAAAAAAAN9k/R71iU02FhNw/s1600-h/6.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0wjJOdFI/AAAAAAAAN9k/R71iU02FhNw/s400/6.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">We spent much of the afternoon birdwatching. There was a bird bonanza at our bird-feeder all day long.</div><div style="text-align: center;">* </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0yAv1UxI/AAAAAAAAN9s/pwvVO0OnMuo/s1600-h/7.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0yAv1UxI/AAAAAAAAN9s/pwvVO0OnMuo/s400/7.JPG" width="267" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">And finally!... after weeks of patiently waiting!... birds appeared today at the window birdfeeders at the boys' bedrooms. These window feeders were their Christmas presents this year from Mama and Papi. They've been carefully waiting for the moment the birds would come. And today was the day! K & O were so excited that they wanted to put slices of bread in the feeders. I let them. They watched, at their bedroom windows, so silently and still, on-and-off for hours all afternoon. Their baby sister created quite a problem by repeatedly running in being her silly-toddler-self and "scaring the birds away!!!" So I had to distract her for much of the time...</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0zfe380I/AAAAAAAAN90/yrWRkeRp2vY/s1600-h/8.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0zfe380I/AAAAAAAAN90/yrWRkeRp2vY/s400/8.JPG" width="267" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">...with one of her new favorite activities: coloring. (Ah!!! finally I get a crafty one!!!!!!!!!)</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N00ktkuEI/AAAAAAAAN98/x1_uygQm158/s1600-h/9.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N00ktkuEI/AAAAAAAAN98/x1_uygQm158/s400/9.JPG" width="267" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">We did venture out in the snow.</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N02A1EfJI/AAAAAAAAN-E/bEWc2H2DX-M/s1600-h/10.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N02A1EfJI/AAAAAAAAN-E/bEWc2H2DX-M/s400/10.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">And I finally cheered "Video Time!!!" (much to the boys' delight) at about 4:00. Curious George, of course.</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N03ZXksUI/AAAAAAAAN-M/9ATZxt1ghBA/s1600-h/11.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N03ZXksUI/AAAAAAAAN-M/9ATZxt1ghBA/s400/11.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Dinner was the lamb stew. And a loaf of Braydon's bread. By candlelight as we watched the snow piling higher and higher on our deck.</div><div style="text-align: center;">*</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0452--oI/AAAAAAAAN-U/u1C2K-gaQWQ/s1600-h/12.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3N0452--oI/AAAAAAAAN-U/u1C2K-gaQWQ/s400/12.JPG" width="266" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;">Like I said, probably a Top 20 Day of the year.</div><div style="text-align: center;">And the snow is still coming down. </div>Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35860543.post-51872385795136082352010-02-09T20:43:00.023-05:002010-02-09T20:54:36.265-05:004 Weeks<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3ILmeMauaI/AAAAAAAAN80/G16Y87dM_EA/s1600-h/Time+Cover.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MNFALpdiB_Q/S3ILmeMauaI/AAAAAAAAN80/G16Y87dM_EA/s320/Time+Cover.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>The earthquake was four weeks ago today. To say that we've been profoundly effected by this is an understatement. We feel that the earth shifted under our feet --<i> figuratively speaking,</i> that is, <i>of course</i> -- because we are incessantly conscientiously aware that the part of the earth on which we live did not, in fact, shake under us... which makes it just feel <i>so very, very wrong </i>to even mention the grief and despair and world-turned-upside-down-feelings that we are feeling here in the J-M household in these days since January 12. I really just don't know what to say about it. All I know is that I can't seem to find a way to bring myself back to acting like all is "normal" and o.k. when, <i>really</i>, it isn't. There is a lot going on with this, much of which I cannot write about on the blog. For now, we're just trying to live through this, since we know that there is no good or right way to try to live around it, over it, or under it. It is what it is. It is our life. And so we keep on with it.<br />
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Today I bought three copies of this special edition that Time Magazine recently put out. I bought them -- 1 for each of our children -- to put away with the special items that I'm collecting for them. Some day, when the time is right (like when they are 16 or 18 or 20), I'll give each of them a box of special meaningful items that I've been collecting for them over the years of their lives. For Kyle and Owen, over the past six years, amongst other things I've been storing away some special Haiti-related things. Never in a million years could I ever have imagined I'd be putting something like this into their boxes.Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05046870363509253257noreply@blogger.com4